It is simple 

“If you love and you were asked, ‘Why do you love?’ and you are able to answer, ‘I love because of his or her beauty, or position in life, or charm or good character’ — in other words, if you can give the reason for your love — then it is not love. 
But if this question is put to you, and as if in a sudden wonder, you must admit that you don’t know, that the WHY never occurred to you; you just love, that’s all, so simple … then, only then, is it real love.”
~ Bhai Sahib (20th century Indian Sufi mystic)

खुदगर्ज़ी

अपनी खुदगर्ज़ी छुपाने का 
एक तरीका यह भी है 
की हर हाल में खुद को 
सही साबित करो 
कभी कभी खुदगर्ज़ी 
सच्चाई का झोला ओढ़े भी मिलती है!
This is so true.